“We have to confront ourselves. Do we like what we see in the mirror? And, according to our light, according to our understanding, according to our courage, we will have to say yea or nay – and rise!”
How easy it is to point blame on others for the state of your current life. If only your parents had been better equipped… If only you had the material things so and so has… If only the ex spouse had not taken advantage of you, your finances, and kindness.
While all these memories and experiences may be true and your reactions justified, how is this state of mind serving you? Chances are they are blocks within you needing to be released.
Try looking in the mirror and acknowledging where you are and which parts you own. This is not to encourage self- judgment or criticism, but as a way of neutrally looking at your own choices and softening the edges to encourage healing. When we are able to honesty step back, look at what part we played and continue to play, it’s an opportunity to let go of what was and move forward into what honors you and your life.
Wishes to you for a happy day!